Opinion
Articles written by Advocates, that are sole opinion based
Flor de Oro
by Grisanti Valencia
Yo so Grisanti, Ita Kwaan; Flor de Oro;
Embarrassment of my skin has kept me trapped
NOW! I love my brown skin
Living on the East side of Fresno
I have hopes and aspirations
I feel trapped among
Poverty, Drugs and Sex
People on welfare surround me
I feel trapped in a world of the common question!
What are you? What’s your identity?
Mexicana? I did live in Mexico,
Oaxaquena? My parents are from there,
Chicana? I do share that political identity,
Sonorense? my birth Certificate says I was born there
What am I?
I say I’m indigenous and it is not accepted!
I say I’m Chicana and they tell me I’m not.
Yo soy Zapoteca,
Yo soy Oaxaquena!
I’m that raped child at 10
I have been raped by the person who created me
My protector harmed me
I’m that girl scared of love
I am that girl that runs from love
I am Rigoberta Menchu,
Fighting for the rights of her people
the indigenous people no one will fight for
I am the undocumented child arriving the United States at 5
I am a DREAMer
I will survive!!
I will live the “ American dream”
I will help raped children, abused children, neglected children
I am Malcolm X
A radical being that the government wants to keep in his place
Dr. king wants the same thing I want,
FREEDOM!!!
You don’t have to be a man to fight for freedom,
You have to be an humble human being
I am the flower of gold,
My skin is the color of Dirt!
People see me and all they see is another Mexicana
I am an exception to the rule
I am a raped, abused child.
I am undocumented and proud.
I will continue to dream,
I will continue to fight!
The Importance of Addressing Sexual Assault On College Campuses!
by Amber Mendoza, RCS Intern
Sexual assault is a very important issue in society because it can happen to anyone regardless of age, gender, sexual orientation or race. However many people would rather not discuss this topic. Cultural differences may place shame and embarrassment on the victim and thus, many times the victim would rather stay quiet about the assault. In most cases victims go into a stage of self-blaming and develop long lasting physical and psychological trauma. Depression, social isolation and low self-esteem are common symptoms that victims of sexual assault face, which add more stressors to one’s life. Sexual assault is a growing epidemic on college campuses and needs to be addressed. Students may find themselves or others in a sexual assault situation and need to know what services are available to them.
Being a college student, I know first-hand how difficult school can be. I could not imagine how much more difficult life would be if I were dealing with psychological and psychical trauma that sexual assault victims face. I was alarmed when I discovered that about 1 in 4 college women are a victim of sexual assault.. My sister, my friends, and even I will have an increase percentage of being victims of sexual assault during our academic career. This is why rape and sexual violence is necessary to address, especially on college campuses.
I feel that there is a lack of education and awareness about sexual assault on college campuses. Many college students are unaware of available resources and services, which is why outreach events such as Take Back the Night are so beneficial. Take Back the Night was an event that brought awareness to ending violence against women and was held at the Fresno State campus in October. I was surprised to learn that this event took place every year because I have attended Fresno State for three years and this was my first time hearing about it. Like numerous students, I too was unaware of the different services offered to survivors. I was able to talk with other students during the event and I found that many were unfamiliar with RCS Fresno and the types of services we provide. As I continued to talk with other students I found that they had no idea that this event took place and only attended because a friend invited them or it was for a class assignment. At the end of the night, however, many stated they were glad they attended because it empowered and supported survivors.
It is important to continue addressing sexual assault on college campuses and equipping students with helpful tips and resources in the event they need or know of someone who may need support. These resources can then help victims in becoming survivors. Sexual assault seems to be a taboo subject that no one really wants to discuss; however, it needs to be!
How College Students Can Take a Stand To End Violence On Campus!
by Stephanie Canales, Advocate
Can you imagine a University without students? there will be no graduation ceremonies, no classes, extracurricular events, concerts, special guests. Companies and businesses would lack professionals to carry on their work. Students form a vital part of our society. We don’t always realize that students influence social values: dating rules, dressing styles, vocabulary, music, etc. The power that students have over what is modern, appealing or even socially acceptable is huge.
According to local University, CSU Fresno statistics, around 60% of the people on campus are women. At any graduation ceremony, there are hundreds of women from different backgrounds and nationalities. However, 20% of women on campuses are at risk or have experience sexual assault. This means that 1 out 5 women students will suffer the trauma of sexual assault, not only physically but in their hearts and minds.
The vast majority of cases of sexual assault are committed by someone who is known by the victim. Therefore, women on campus are being sexually assaulted by their friends, boyfriends, husbands, family members, and even those who is perceived as authority figures; which includes but not limited to a professor or even Law Enforcement. Men are also at risk but only 1 out 10 cases are males and they are usually assaulted by other men.
If you are troubled by these numbers, you can do something about it. You can attend campus events organized by the Women’s Resource Center and campus clubs. Many student activists from the Women’s Studies Department collaborate and create a safe space where students from our campus disclose how violence and sexual assault have affected their lives. Listening to their experiences is shocking and it puts a face on how important is that all of us take a stand against it.
Thanks to Title IX and VAWA, universities are mandated to take action against sexual assault. But without students’ input and innovation and power, any effort to end sexual assault on campus is like giving classes to empty chairs. Students can speak against sexual assault and against old dating styles. Dating can be fun and important for our development as human beings. Why not learn how to communicate safely about consent during sexual encounters so people are less likely to get hurt?
The trauma of sexual assault can be devastating. People suffer from social isolation, depression, anxiety, chemical dependency and increased risk of suicide. Who could study for a final exam when suffering from trauma symptoms? Sometimes the traumatized person does not even recognize or accept that something is wrong.
A campus free of sexual assault not only makes dating better but also increases the chances of success for both men and women. Let’s take a stand against sexual assault today and innovate our dating culture towards a brighter future for everyone. RCS Fresno invites you to make a personal commitment to help keep women and men safe from sexual assault. Pledge to not be a bystander to the problem, but to be part of the solution to end sexual assault.
